August 23rd, 2010 by Karmun
Anyone who knows me would tell you that I’m the last person in the world who may have even the smallest sliver of faith in long distance relationships. They just don’t work. Out of sight, out of mind, that’s what I firmly believe in. Already it’s so hard for couples to stay together and not claw each other’s eyes out when they’re seeing one another on daily basis; put an ocean or two between them, or a few hundred miles – you can only imagine what that wide expanse of time and space between two people are going to do to them. I’m not being skeptical, only realistic. I’ve seen first-hand what waiting endlessly on the other party to call night after night, or logging onto MSN Messenger or Skype every chance you get, hoping maybe, just maybe, you might be lucky enough to squeeze that short ten minutes amidst your respective hectic schedules to ask how the other person’s day had been, only to be severely disappointed when he or she is no where to be found in cyberspace, can do to you. It’s sad, it’s tragic. It’s nothing short of heart-breaking.
But that’s the wonder about love – at least true love, that which knows no conditon nor boundary. I’m not talking about your high school sweetheart whom you promised to stay together with after graduation and swore to wait for through college, uni and what-have-you, only to realize you weren’t meant for one another after all two weeks into your freshmen year. I’m talking about genuine, sincere love which we only read about in books, or witness on television circa the 1950′s when young girls waited at home for their man out at war fighting enemies of flesh, ghost and bullets, and could do nothing but pray for the yellow telegram to never arrive. Because when it did, it meant the end of everything they have ever come to know.
True love like that, it never fails to surprise even the most skeptical once in a while. Yes, even the likes of hardcore pessimists like me. They spring at you out of no where, especially during times when you least expect to see that single ray of hope in times of painful turmoil. It serves to ensure you – whether you like it or not – that there is still hope for man yet. And for so long as there is hope, there is chance, and there is the possibility for a better turn of events. I guess we all need that once in a while, even those of us who do not believe in miracles. We wish every day for a lucky break, a little bit of good luck. We wish, even though our rationales tell us to live on blind faith and empty hope brings us no where. We wish anyway, because sometimes, wishes do come true.
Tonight was one of those night when I had the tables turned on me.

For all my grip of steel and vice on the impossibility of long distance relationships, I saw with my own two eyes how it may just be possible. These two I finally managed to capture for dinner with the Ninja Rabbit and I blew out the window all my disbelief in LDRs.

Four and half years and still going strong. Having met online, they were parted from the very beginning upon finding out that they lived in different parts of the country. And with graduation and the prospect of tertiary education, that 350 odd kilometres suddenly seem like nothing when UK decided to come into the picture sans invitation and play a hand.

Yet they made it. As much and as surely as I may not have survived the many miles and different timezones, they stayed steady and strong, living everyday but for that four short weeks when they would be together out of a whole year when he returned for the summer.

Now that’s what I call Love.
And you can bet there was a lot of it, before, during and after dinner. Of course we pulled out all the stops and went to the one place I absolutely worship when it comes to Red Velvet Cakes =D






Inside joke of the night: We are all now official members of exclusive “Red Velvet Club” LOL. Yes, we’re aware of how kinky it sounds – like some secret organization that deals with underground prostitution of a higher class or something xD
Behold, the single yummiest buttermilk cake tainted a devilish red layered on tiers of the most sinful cream and strawberry essence. It’s not called Devil’s Food for nothing!


Coming from a dessert enthusiast like me who jumps at the mere sight of all things sweet, sugary and creamy, you know it’s good.
The night fell too short and dinner felt like a flash. But if they can make it through a whole year to see one another, I most certainly can wait the three months till I see the girl who used to be my basketball team member again, heh.

Now… Singapore awaits! Time to ransack the room for the i-Touch which I’ll be needing and update the playlist for my five hour bus ride! Yes, such is how the Ninja Rabbit treats his gadgets, le sigh. While at it, I’m gonna keep my fingers crossed and maybe get Plants vs Zombies successfully downloaded into it =D
Happy Monday! =)